Remember that your wife has done none of this preparation. I don't think you should expect her to come to the conversation with her thoughts together or her emotions in check. So you might have some garbage to deal with there.
YES, I will need to remind myself of this. I am not looking for a solution on monday. What I am looking for is to open the door.
Originally Posted By: Sara
Keep in mind that you do not have to solve this problem alone. If it is more than the two of you know how to solve there are resources for you to go to.
Even though I am a little reluctant I do think that Retrouvaille is a must. It will be hard because neither one of us are religious but I don't see how it could hurt.
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know