She's Gone - No Contact

[NikB]

K - not silly at all! It's funny how different people are with reading "soft copies" of things. I hate taking meetings from conf rooms - I'd much rather be dialed in and reading it at my desk. I know a lot of other people who even print out their email vs. reading it online, though.

She doesn't have anyone else (I don't think) except the big, fat, religious monster hanging over her head. And her memories of us arguing a lot. (Why can't she remember the GOOD stuff, like I do?)

Because if she remembered THAT she'd be doubting her decision and she doesn't want to do that. It's sooo common.

Don't beat yourself up too much. Make the changes, make them permanent, and move forward. Sounds like she had a LOT of issues too, to say the least. Maybe you wouldn't be together, maybe you would and be fighting all the time, who knows... but glad to see you looking forward more.