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Heyya Sistahh

remember that sienfeld episode about "Hand"?

you have "hand" here, don't give it up.

I relate to him working a ton as I am typing this, on a killer sunday morning, from WORK.

you see, my boss has "Hand"

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Hey sparkles.

Yowza. I got a few days behind on my reading, and look at what's been happening to you.

Having no personal experience with anything remoting resembling pieceing(!), I hesitate to say anything other than keep GALing for you, and take it one day at a time. I for one don't like it when anybody breaks a firm date with me without letting me know. But maybe I'm hard to get along with!

Hugs, I'm tickled for you if for no other reason than your life is interesting right now!

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expletive expletive and double expletive. Kindda funny about H howling about being poor with his first name,,,,,


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Wow, just wow. Finding your new thread just blew me away.

Hope this doesn't keep you from your visit to good old England!


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before I can even post I had to see what was going on over here.

Very nice. This for sure is very interesting.

I , too, believe he was telling the truth. I am in awe of how situation has turned.

so is he really moving in???

You are handling it so well. You learned alot and are now putting it to work. I cannot believe he is apologizing so much. Just be you and everything else will flow.

Lots of hugs to you and keep posting it is interesting ;\)

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Just out of curiosity, did you have an OW involved?


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hey J,

Sorry he got callled into work. But you handld it beautifully. \:\)

Hope you had a great day today!!

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Thank you so much Snodderly! \:\) I needed that, as this whole crumbsnatching thing was starting to get to me. One side was feeling a bit degraded and stupid. The smart side said "nope, your being and adult". WHEW!

{{AH}} Your right about braking the date bit. I don't understand how he can be so apologetic on one hand and so lacking in manners on the other! It's common courtesy. This makes me feel stupid also. But then I remember the other stupid things he's done and well....he's just being him and I'll just be me and let is rooooooollllllll off. Whatever....I had a wonderful Sunday no matter what!!

Heidi, you were wrong in your predictions! So I hope you enjoyed it for me \:D ;\) Thanks for the pics!! LOL....I sent them to my email...so I could enlarge them

Angel Dude! Your still here watching pervvvvvvfect...hehe. If I have such "hand"....then "hand" says you should NOT be working on SUNDAYS!! Take a mental clarity break dude! and update me when you get a chance.

Shortstuff!! Yes. He HAD an OW. I'm almost positive she has been out of the pic since Oct. I had the fortunate opportunity to listen to a 30 minute phone call between the two of them and a fertility Dr.Rich must have accidently hit redial or something on his cell phone as my phone rang and the conversation began) They were trying to have a baby. We were not even divorced yet! Blech. I should have hit the end button but I was riveted If I am correct in my timeline...it had a 1.5 year life. \:\) Not sure who bailed first, but I really don't care.

{{{Kiki}}} NO HE IS NOT MOVING IN I think he just tossed that statement in the air to see how I would react. No reaction from me except do whatever it is you feel necessary to get this DONE and done RIGHT!

Why is it that Mondays are the most gorgeous days of the week? Skies are blue, birds are chirping, its not humid so makes for a great hair day, but.....we are stuck at work.

ACJ.....I am visiting the UK this year if it's the last thing I do. I want to visit sooooooooooo bad!!! I still have my visions of dropping momentos in the Thames River!! \:D

Have a wonderful Monday!

Jeanette


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J,

It is such a pleasure to read your thread.....you have us all waiting for the next instalment.....

So how many of us are going to be at the airport to greet you? Loads!!!!!!!!

I am SO glad you are getting this opportunity to get some sort of peace/piece - you deserve it.


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NO HE IS NOT MOVING IN I think he just tossed that statement in the air to see how I would react. No reaction from me except do whatever it is you feel necessary to get this DONE and done RIGHT!
Don't be surprised by anything!!! He's short on cash, he pays the mortgage there, does he pay for where he stays now too? It would be like a one month *test* period for both of you. You might be surprised!
It might be like diving off a horse into the water and coming up with +apples+!!


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