This is what I do....

"Yes dear, "( thinking to myself, I have laundry to do)

"Yea I know," ( I better go feed the dog)

"I'm always here for you"( wonder what I'll make for dinner?)

You get my drift.

In other words H doesn't want to hear my side right now so I validate , validate validate.

It's all about him, remember?

I won't give him ammunition either. He won't see me blow my stack therefore it won't come back to bite me in the "you know what"

Picture him in the nude acting this way.

Makes it easier to take. Then when he is gone go crazy on a pillow. \:\)

E

"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"

Being the calmness in the storm......