Okay anyone out there...How do you communicate to a person who is unwilling or unable to take responsibility for themselves as an adult. Seems every time it comes down to the same thing. Even if I do take responsibility for myself (and yes there are times I slip) it doesn't seem to matter. Just doesn't register. Perhaps I am missing something? Or is it just impossible to do with someone who sees themselves as a victim and a child all the time? Any suggestions?