Thanks Saffie,

People keep saying you know when you are ready. Well I can't say I am ready. I can't say when the best time would be. (Except when son is in school. I will not be giving W an ultimatum. I will be asking for help from her to help me decide what I need to do. You are all my friends. You have all given me so much. But as it was pointed out by someone here. This is a decision that my W and I need to make. I will be going into these "negotiations" with an open mind. I think I can accept which ever way it goes. Of course I hope we can work it out and stay together.

H


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know