Was2sad...you are too funny about H and non-existent OW crossing the street!! LOL. He was so funny yesterday..claiming she and he were NOT in a relationship and in next breath telling me "whatever you do...DO NOT breath her name to ANYONE she could get in a LOT of trouble" LOL ooohh the temptation....
He also told me "you told D16 that I didnt pay the cable/internet bill ( he didnt. it was truth plain and simple)) and thats emotional abuse" huh??
Ok question....anyone else's darling midlifer tell them that "they didnt love them for 7 no 10 no wait 15 no no no wait I never loved you" and then I asked "what about the great anniversary cards and etc etc etc etc" to have him say " Oh I faked it" Sigh.
Anyone? Please tell me I'm not alone..I think Treese told me her H said this to her too?
Are we having fun yet?
Oh and I love my H dearly and miss him terribly ..the OLD guy he was not this new version. This new version sucks!!! ( can I say that?) Anywho...as much as I miss the guy and am counting the days till he comes back to us, I'm listing the POSITIVE things about having him gone..such as...
Less laundry. None of his body hair all over bathrrom floor. Toilet seat up/down is a non issue. I have been able to clean out his old manuals that he will never use and has been holding onto forever. They are gone.
Of course I would trade all of these things in a heartbeat to have him back home,smiling, happy,loving and joking around.
Ohhh and he told me that since he left me a "black cloud" has been lifted from him...I was a black cloud? Huh? Black does happen to be my best color...had he said gray now THAT would have been a differant story...
M 44 H 44 M 22 yrs D 20 D 16 D 13 Bomb 1 8/25/07 Bomb 2 9/30/07 Left 10/01/07 OW..yup
Me? I'm scrambling to save my family. My H is just scrambling.
