OK, I am a hypocrite....

I don't talk to my MIL and haven't had contact with her in a long time.

But do try to remember that your MIL probably is just a bit confused and and has no clue as to what the "right" thing is.

Be friendly, but at a distance.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.