Controlling XW

[chrism]

Good morning all:

I don't seem to understand the situation that I have been going through with the XW right now. She wanted out of this marriage so much so that she pushed the D and it was over in 3 months from time of filing to final signing. I have accepted that and have attempted to move on, but as I have stated in previous posts she has made things difficult at every turn. I pushed up until the D for us to go to C together, she absolutely refused. This past Thursday, I received an email from her stating that our D4 is confused and she wants her to see a child therapist. It is ironic that she would not step one foot into counseling with me, but now she feels our D4 needs it. Which IMHO she wouldn't need if the XW had gone into C with me during the M. We have joint custody and are supposed to be making all decisions in regards to D4, but XW took D4 to initial consultation and then contacted me and said she was going. And that she wants me to participate in the program. I have my D4 this weekend, and she keeps saying mommy says I am confused. My XW spent over 1.5 years in C without my knowledge, (paid cash) so no record. This is another in a very long list of things XW has done. I accepted the fact she was a WAW and have been trying to move on. She was the one who wanted this yet, she can't seem to move on.

She recently filed a motion of contempt of court against me because her child support was not being garnished from my pay check, but yet I was directly paying her on time everytime. Her attorney was supposed to setup the Income Deduction Order, but sent a copy to the wrong address for my company so they never received it, again this was my fault. Sorry for rambling on again today, but I am trying to move on, but every week it is something else...and I am about frustrated and don't knoww what to do now. Thanks...