By the way - if you read what I have written lately, it is mostly about the business of divorce. Filing motions and protection orders and so on.

I have to say, I am still DBing. In a different way, of course. I still believe most people give up on marriages too soon. My wife has gone off them deep end, but even now she still is not experiencing the true consequences of what she has decided. She hasn't had to move out of the house. She hasn't had to confront the sharing of custody of her beloved children. She hasn't had her budget restricted. All this will come to pass. Soon. The way I get there is by following the divorce proceedings.

Will it be enough to shake her loose? Not sure. But we shall see. For now I am remaining patient, while at the same time protecting myself and planning for a future with or without her. I am not taking what she does personally.


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....