hello all I've had a turblent weekend. H's OW emailed me telling me how happy they are, how is such a part of her family, her kids love him etc, and advising me to stop being so bitter as I am preventing him from moving on because I am making him guilty. As you can imagine I went nuts - how can someone be so cruel. My kids are longing for their dad everyday and she rubs it in my face that he is with hers. I phoned H in tears - he came over. Said it was rubbish and he had already told her that he was not comfortable being part of her family as he missed his own. Said she is desperate because he is trying to pull away. I don't know if he is telling the truth. Said he doesn't know how to break up with her because if he does he has to pay her back all the money that she put into his music and he doesn't have it. He stayed with night with me which was probably a big mistake on my part. I really can't take this anymore. I feel like I am having a tug of war with her over him - it is so demeaning. For all I know, he is telling her the same thing i.e. that he is trying to get rid of me. How on earth do I figure out what is true and what to do next - is it worth hanging in through all this drama. Any ideas anyone?
Me: 39, H: 37 Married 12 yrs EA 01/07, bomb 07/07. He moved out 09/07. Lived alone for some time, moved in with OW in 2009, moved out again Mar 2010 S:8 D:11
