Thanks minkerman that is so true...10% is not zero and I still have a ray of hope.
He was going on and on about how he isn't sexually attracted to me and stuff. That really hurts, but I listened to what he had to say and kept validating his feelings. He is still really hung up on the OW right now. I am very sure that R is over and so is he, but he is still addicted to her. He is going to try to move on and get over her, which I am sure will take time. It kills me how he thinks he was madly in love with someone he knew for a whole 2 1/2 months. Yeah...he was in LUST with her and nothing more. But I didn't say that, I just validated that he is having a difficult time getting over her and that he needs to move on when he is ready. But maybe whenever he has moved past her, he will start to see me a little differently. That is my prayer right now.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
