Originally Posted By: Chevelle
Thanks, RMG. I know she wouldnt do counseling...she made that point clear when D talks were brought up last year...In PA, I can "force" her to suubmit to counseling, but she has told me it wouldnt help...whatever.

Now, like I said, she has dated some men, but cant seem to be happy with them for more than a few weeks. For the most part it doesnt bother me, but what she is doing to herself is not going to make her happy it seems from my viewpoint. She gets her 15 minutes of release, and then back to the her mundane life.

I have done well, I think. I really have focused on me, but my compassion for her I feel keeps me on the fence sometimes.

Thanks again and God Bless

Chevelle


Chevelle,

I guess I am looking at counseling focused on her issues surrounding her A more than your M....

I think it is vital you tell me exactly what you mean by
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She gets her 15 minutes of release, and then back to the her mundane life.
Do you mean she is having the new relationship "high" or is she having sex with them? If she is having sex with them, RUN do not walk away from this....

Take Care,

RMG


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