Thanks, RMG. I know she wouldnt do counseling...she made that point clear when D talks were brought up last year...In PA, I can "force" her to suubmit to counseling, but she has told me it wouldnt help...whatever.
Now, like I said, she has dated some men, but cant seem to be happy with them for more than a few weeks. For the most part it doesnt bother me, but what she is doing to herself is not going to make her happy it seems from my viewpoint. She gets her 15 minutes of release, and then back to the her mundane life.
I have done well, I think. I really have focused on me, but my compassion for her I feel keeps me on the fence sometimes.
