CONTACTING OW/OW'S HUSBAND

[kikidee]

well...i guess some people are just gone. after a long discussion, there was nothing other than for me to ask him to take as much of his stuff as he could get into the car. he can find no reason to try to work towards repairing our marriage. the very sad part is that the only attempt, with help, to do something was with a therapist who got all of our garbage out in the open and then did nothing with it. so now we are left here living with all of each other's grievances and no way to deal with them. i am very sad and angry but feel as though i didn't have a choice. if he can't see the value in even an attempt at trying, then there's really nothing i can do.