i'm working too much lately to post well, but let me just say that LRT/going dark is SUCH a good idea for you.
and, i really just think your H needs IC, not any type of MC right now. as you yourself said to OW, your H is a pathological liar - with BOTH of you, and has misled your MC(s) before.
It's really of no use until he is well as an INDIVIDUAL before there is anything you can do as a COUPLE.
of course this is just MHO, and YMMV, and I'm biased toward you and wouldn't mind killing your H while he sleeps. you know. SMOOCH!
{{{cat}}}
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
