Lets see..My H called to "talk" about finances. I first prayed. It was ugly but I kept it together and mostly listened. Then I mentioned his affair. He denied. I didnt say too much. He told me he would be pursuing a new relationship and I needed to except it. I was pretty unmoved by it. "creepy calm" you might want to call it.He proceeded to tell me everything I did wrong ....again. I kept quiet. Im getting so good at this. It went on for a while then he had to go. I ended convo with " H sooo many people all over this country are praying for you and our family..sooo many..we are so blessed...so very very blessed"
He said nothing but a calm "bye"
( I think I might have hit "something". we shall see.)
M 44 H 44 M 22 yrs D 20 D 16 D 13 Bomb 1 8/25/07 Bomb 2 9/30/07 Left 10/01/07 OW..yup
Me? I'm scrambling to save my family. My H is just scrambling.