It's understandable that this would crank you up. Maybe she doesn't want to date but her friends are trying to help her build her confidence or find a distraction, whatever. Most people would feel that it is way too soon to start thinking of dating.

Can you find something else to focus your attention on for a while? It will probably help a lot to think about something else.

me: 47
H: 48
he has 2 grown sons
M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd)
hit iceberg 6/07
S 9/26/07
before
now