thanks for checking in...I have to keep this short we are heading out to a dinner for his racing in a few minutes. I have been really giving it some serious thought about telling H about the A fully. I know what you are saying about the A give you a wake up call. I do. But I have to keep reminding my self that small stead steps will get me to the end much faster than huge leaps forward and then backward, becuase I know there will be those too. But I do stuggel with the fact that I lost what I thought was a very good friend over this whole mess.
