The GET A LIFE(GAL) approach can be used beyond the Big D. A list was posted in this forum. You can brainstorm yours.
It takes time to heal. Keep visiting Michele's site. Also, use words of affirmation. Tell yourself, "It's going to be a good day! When you pass by a mirror, smile at yourself, and say, "I love myself." If you're in a funk, do somthing special, and include your son. Go get icecream, see a movie, whatever comes to mind. Perhaps a special dinner with your girlfriends would help too. For me, spirituality helped enormously. The list goes on....
