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(((Grace)))
I thought maybe your H would avoid this too...especially for your D's sake...I am sorry. But I know that if your D's are anything like their mom, they will find their strength and learn from this change in their lives.

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Hugs to you Grace.

This is not the end. Just a step. you know that.

And this is the world asking you now to show what you are made of. Now you will show why you are worthy to have your beautiful daughters. You will be the mother they need in this time of difficulty. I know you will.

In many years, regardless what happens, they will look back on this time and smile, thankful to have had you protecting them, showing them the way, loving them. Know that. They will marvel at the strength you showed. And the memory of it will inspire them to be the best they can be.

Why do I know this so surely?

This is the way I think of my mom, about the time she went through it with my dad.


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Grace,

Hi Grace_0

Finally found you. I've been reading your threads. I'm such a novice so I can't really offer any advice but you’ve gotten me through these last few days an I want to thank you and that I’ll be praying for all of you.

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[[[[[[[Grace]]]]]]]

Oh Grace ,I'm so sorry to hear about this.

You will be a pillar of strength for your babies.

I will be a beacon of light for you. You helped me through some sad days Grace. I'll be there for you.

Right now it feels as though your in a fog. You will be o.k. Grace.

You have that inner stability that will see you through and when you feel as though you can't anymore, come here...with your friends.

The girls will be o.k. It will be a shock but they have you.

You be their constant...You be their steady...They will need that now more than ever... and you have style and grace.

It's another step and soon My H will be leaving too. They need to go and figure things out.

Think of it as another page in the story of our lives.

It's going to be a long book and it's o.k. to cry because some of the parts are sad.

Hang in there Grace
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Being the calmness in the storm......
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Grace,

I want you to know that I'm here for you. You can make it through this. I know you can.

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Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
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((((((((Grace,))))))))

I am so sorry.

We see each step coming, but each one is still such a shock when it happens.

God bless you, I'll be praying for peace and strength for your daughters and yourself. And discernment for your H.

You are strong. Be the woman you are.

We are not called on to shine in easy every-day comfortable situations. Everyone looks good then.

We are called on to shine when it's down and dirty, no-win crisis situations. This is when we show what we are made of.

I know what you are made of, and I know that you will shine like a diamond in the sun.


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These are my friends now!

But someday baby...
You ain't worry my life anymore

Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.
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Fellow Pirate,

Sorry for what's happening. Looks like it's time to hoist the mainsail and meet the big waves head-on.

At times like this, maybe we should ponder..."What would Grace O'Malley do?"

Hope I got a chuckle out of ya...

Hang in there. There's about three dozen of us here on your pirate crew watchin' your back...

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Grace, you have my prayers for your sitch. You always do.

Without you as a wonderful guiding force, I think it would have taken me much longer to go to Him for everything.

This part of the "journey" (I know that seems to be overused) may, unfortunately, be necessary to get to a better place for you and your H.

When you feel you are weakest is probably when you are truly strong.

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I don't have the words to thank all of you for being here and sharing your words of wisdom.

The mainsail is up and the sun is trying to break through the clouds.

I'm having a hard time today b/c I'm angry. H decided to tell our D's about his apt yesterday without me there. I haven't addressed it with him yet. I went for a long walk this morning and was fortunate enough to get in 5 miles before it stared raining hard again. I need some way to burn this energy off. Perhaps some weight lifting and/or crunches later. D's want "all" of us to go to a movie. D13 is being quite vocal about that.

Big bear HUGS to all of you. You are the light that hepls me to shine.

Btw, I think Grace O'Malley would kick his ass..... \:\)

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Btw, I think Grace O'Malley would kick his ass.....

You're damn right she would. Pirates didn't have time for no MLC BS...

Arrrrr....


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