Sooo... now my H doesn't think that I am dealing with the reality of our D. He accused me of covering up my feelings by shopping (I bought 3 sale items), getting a new haircut (I got it trimmed), and acting like I'm "all that" at work (I've earned a lot of people's respect in a short period of time). So, I guess because I want to look pretty and use my brain, I'm not dealing with the reality of our D. WTH is THAT???
