I did the same thing, K! I have it all printed out and never actually LOOKED at it. I find it sinks in more when I go read it on the site for some reason.

Also I forgot to answer your question on others in your same sitch with no kids and such. I have a feeling that's why Michelle and I were drawn to your thread. Michelle already posted about her sitch and how similar it is to yours. My H and I have the house together and the dog, but no kids.

I've seen a handful of others in the past but most I can think of are pretty infrequent posters these days.

There is also this poster:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1365712&page=0&fpart=1 who says she has "no kids to draw him back" but talks about her daughter. I assume it must mean that she has a daughter from a previous R but no kids with him. Her sitch has me scratching my head because I can't figure out how they even ended up married! But you might get some comfort from each other?


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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