Partner left after 9 years - now we're friends??

[AliSuddenly]

Ha, tempetd, classic, like it! I sent that back, also asked him if he fended him off by stripping off his shirt and wasting him, Rambo style. I also added, glad you are feeling better, Me.

Christ, we are conversing like teenagers. I'm 37 in a couple of weeks! Still, humour is good I guess.

Still feel sad that he took off back to our hometown, 250 miles away, instead of hanging out here and therefore deliberately missed an opportunity to spend time with me. My sister was saying that maybe that is a bad sign. That he didnt turn to me. Looks like it really is over she reckons !???

..oh no, just realised I made a joke of what happened..when in fact it may have been quite upsetting for him. He only knows three mates here so far and this is the one he really likes and respects. And then he goes and does that to him! And now my BF probably wont feel comfortable to arrange to see him outside work. So now I see why he felt wierd and down and jumped in his car and drove 250 miles to meet up with his old friends. Damn, wish I'd thought about that before I replied now. It does pay to think things through !

I sent it an hour ago and he hasnt replied this time, so he obviously didnt think much of my text! Or is just out in the pub :-)