I already saw a l and i can: 1. Stay in house and fight for custody. W has made it clear that she wants full. I would like equal, seems fair considering we are their parents. I do not want to talk to w anymore about this because it ends up in an argument. L said that courts wont award joint so i would need to fight for full then maybe compromise. Doing this would push wife away (hard).
2. move out into an apartment after selling camper. This would help pay mortage for temp. After money is used up i would need to move back in. WAIT A MINUTE. If i do move out what if she doesnt let me back in the house?
3. Keep doing the same thing with nothing changing.
W has said this sitch may have been resolved if i had moved out earlier and had some faith in her. That sounded better when she said it.
Last night at supper the only r thing we talked about was selling the camper and how it would help with mortage, when she mentioned it i think she may not have been talking about me moving out. I didnt want to talk r last night so i didnt ask if that was what she ment.
I have a little bit of time until i am forced to make these decisions. I try not to worry about it and make the best of whats left.
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d20 is coming over to drop off gs. She wasnt supposed to bring him till 4:00. I was looking forward to a couple hours of quiet to myself time. I love my gs, but d20 has him spoiled a little and he needs alot of attention or he gets fussy. He is getting better though.
Me 37 W 37 D21 D17 D12 S8 grandparents 7/07 boy Married 16 yrs last June 07 Bomb dropped 4/07
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt
