I would not think about a legal separation unless you really really need one. I didn't want to do ANYTHING until there was a threat of assets being foolishly used or an abuse of credit threat. That's the reason that after months of separation I have started the legal separation. And I made it clear to my H that I am NOT going to divorce him and that the separation can be dissolved at ANY time. I told him that he is my husband and that he remains my number two priority, under God Himself.

So please don't DO anything until you are SURE it is the best thing to do! {{{HUGS}}} My heart goes out to you!




M: ten years
BS23, BS17
Step-SS20, SS16, SS14
Separated: August 07