After we left, he said I should get more of my son's things because he probably needed them. Then he moved SS20 back into the home. He's been arrested quite a few times since then. He has at least 3 court cases he's dealing with now. About two months ago, I went to the home to pick up a few things and he was smoking pot there. My oldest son and others say he also uses cocaine and ectasy. He's been seen smoking pot from a bong with SS16, who used to be a great kid and get good grades but since I left, he is also failing. SS14 failed all of his classes at semester and if he fails one more core class, he won't graduate with his class. AND HE'S ONLY A FRESHMAN!
We kicked SS20 out of the home together in Jan 07 when I found pot in his room. At least I THOUGHT we were together on that! He has since said that I made him miserable by pressuring him to do that. WE HAD THREE MINOR KIDS IN OUR HOME! Who wouldn't do that?
M: ten years BS23, BS17 Step-SS20, SS16, SS14 Separated: August 07
