I forgot to mention - the most obvious and important 180 is to be calm, cool, collected, happy, upbeat, and KNOWING in your heart that your future will be great because you'll MAKE it that way. Imagine his surprise when you're not the sobbing puddle he expects..


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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