YES, the kids are truly the issue. But he doesn't acknowledge that.
Not surprising - and any pushing you do on that probably makes him even MORE firm in his position.
So another question to delve a little deeper - what do you think is wrong in your R with your H that caused you NOT to tackle this problem as a team?
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His oldest son molested his half-sister at the BM's house 5 years ago.
YIKES. Is he getting some kind of counseling or help?
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
