Yes. The night I left, my son had been thrown out of the house. I went to my mom's home (she is not living there) and the next day, my pastor's wife told me to find my son. He's been with me ever since and I must say, he is doing better than he's done in his whole life!!! He has Asperger's Syndrome. My H says that means he has no feelings. That is not true! My son has only known my H as his father and misses him terribly. He feels his own dad has rejected him.

There is a lot to this story. I really appreciate the questions because I'm in such a whirl that I can't even think what you guys need to know in order to help.

I'm going to check out that site now! THANK YOU! I'm loving the hugs! I'm loving all of this! It is so wonderful to be able to talk with people who don't feel divorce is an option!




M: ten years
BS23, BS17
Step-SS20, SS16, SS14
Separated: August 07