(((((Where is)))))

Here is a good place to start:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=657119&page=1&fpart=1

Read MLC for Dummies first, at least you will laugh, and probably cry!

Is your son with you? It sounds like with H would be a really bad idea. I wish I had good advice, I haven't read enough to say MLC, see what you think after you look at some of that stuff!