Wow, I feel like I am living your life, except that there was no other women in the picture with my husband. I feel your pain. My husband decided several days ago to end our "relationship" however we have to remain in the same house until may because of other circumstances. I don't know how to act either, I have tons of anger and it shows, I am crying all the time just like you and I know that doesn't help, because no man wants to be with a women how isn't confident and how can't control her emotions. This is such a tough situation. Another member told me "fake it until you make it", which I thought was great advice, now only if we can manage to actually do that.
No kidding. I am an overly-emotional person to begin with. I cry at the drop of a pin, so when there is something that really deserves to be cried over, I start and can't stop. I know I look pathetic in his eyes but whenever I try to stop acting that way, I just get worse.
I am hoping that maybe while he is here with me, I can do some things that will help him change his mind about leaving. He says he is 90% sure that he wants to go, so I have a 10% opportunity there. But right now I just feel defeated.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
