Wow, I feel like I am living your life, except that there was no other women in the picture with my husband. I feel your pain. My husband decided several days ago to end our "relationship" however we have to remain in the same house until may because of other circumstances. I don't know how to act either, I have tons of anger and it shows, I am crying all the time just like you and I know that doesn't help, because no man wants to be with a women how isn't confident and how can't control her emotions. This is such a tough situation. Another member told me "fake it until you make it", which I thought was great advice, now only if we can manage to actually do that.