My H has ended his R with the OW and silly me thought that would be the beginning of putting our M back together. However, he still isn't sure about what he wants and has decided to start looking for a better job so that he can get his own apartment and move out. I am in a lot of pain right now. I really didn't think it was going to come to this. I thought once the OW was gone, he would see things differently.
Anyhow...it is going to take some time for him to find a better job. What can I do in the meantime? Do I need to talk to a lawyer about legal seperation? (which I don't really understand to begin with). I know I am supposed to GAL but am I supoosed to pretend like I am happy with the decision he has made? I have read DR but just am not sure how I am supposed to act. I know that all of the crying I have been doing isn't good...but I just can't control that at the moment.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
