So last night just before I left for rehearsal, H made sure to pull out a chocolate cake he bought. We always have had them for bdays and celebrations. To make the point that he is celebrating moving out. I don't know why he does hurtful stuff like that to me. I have been cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, good, faithful wife. He has been doing all the stuff he has been doing, and yet he acts like he is the tortured victim in the marriage for some reason. I don't get it.
I was so happy to go to rehearsal last night. I finally told most of my friends there, maybe all of them?, about H and the marriage and they are all supportive. Many of them know OW's kids and my kids and all say my kids are sweet but OW's d14 is troubled and a handful and her stepkids are emotionally troubled, anexoric, etc. I am not too surprised b/c I know she works 50 hours or so and then has been spending 30-40 hours a week on the affair with my H so doesn't spend much time with them, so I don't think that is good for kids. H seems to have picked an OW that is almost my opposite I think. So I hate to admit I am a little happy I think her kids will disturb a little of his perfect fantasy life with OW. OW has two last names (she is married with kids currently) and her D14 a different third last name so I am also thinking she is on her 2nd or 3rd marriage, and if H wants to marry her he will be her 3rd or 4th husband, so that means I think she's got some issues too, so wonder about that too...Karen43
