Jen_Jam.... Thank you for your calmness and reassurances. I will try my hardest to sit back and let him talk this afternoon and just listen to where he's coming from - if he'll talk. I will try to focus on only positive vibes. Of course, I am not totally in control when he enters the room but will attempt to slow my heart rate and just listen to what feels right at the time. For now, I breathe.


Me: 38
H: 41
D13
D10
S7
M: 15 years
T: 17 years
Discovery of EA: 10/07
Suspected PA
Trial separation: 1/31/08