Fish, I never knew you before today and still...I have tears in my eyes! What a wonderful story! What a huge blessing! WHAT A REASON FOR US TO HOPE!
I agree, let her make the moves. From what I'm reading, she has definitely felt smothered at some point. I'm a woman who doesn't like that either! Be loving and honest, but balance it out and be mysterious at the same time :-)
I am just SO happy for you!
M: ten years BS23, BS17 Step-SS20, SS16, SS14 Separated: August 07