Just wanted to add that my H decided to kick off our vacation by NOT coming home at all last night. If it wasn't for the girls, I would so be staying home. Things will change when we get back. I will do whatever I have to to get him his precious check so he will leave the house. My two options are 1) he stays 2) he goes. They both suck, but #2 gives me my self respect and space that I sooo need and deserve.
After I let him know how I felt about his blatant disrespect, I agreed with him to start the trip off right for the girls. I will do my best.
