Thanks lwb. I'm trying. There are still so many un-answered questions though but for now i'll hold off. Trust will be my biggest problem I fear as I always suspect he's lying to me now.
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace