Congrats Fish! You're in a great spot. I've very happy for you, especially because you are anticipating the pitfalls that may (will probably) happen. All the best to you!
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09