Walk Away Fiancee

[nate75]

NATE ---

WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO GET A LIFE BEYOND AMY???

Are you going out with your friends?
Are you playing sports - basketball, tennis, etc
Can you get a couple friends to go on vacation with you to Jamaica?
FORGET ABOUT AMY... IT's OVER

By the way... she may come crawling back to you.

Fish

Thanks Fish....to answer your questions

I have been busy moving in with my brother. Work has been busy too. I have gone home (I live in Albany and am originally from the Plattsburgh area near the Canadian border) to hangout with my friends and family every weekend since "the bomb". I have gone out with friends every Friday and Saturday since Amy left me. I changed gyms to be close to the new place I live. I go to the gym every morning during the work week at 6am. I have started going to a counselor to talk about my situation. I went to an Al-Anon (for people that are in or have been in a relationship with someone with a drinking problem) meeting last week. I have also begun reading the book Codependant No More to help me understand my issues that contributed to the failed relationship with Amy.

Why would you say Amy may come crawling back? She has not really contacted me in 2.5 weeks...I see no reason for her to ever contact me. She knows that I know about this guy and is very subborn. Why would she ever want to contact me?

Nate