What is he trying to say?

[Where is Hope?]

My husband doesn't say very much as to why he thinks it will never work out. This is what he DOES say and I'm hoping that some of you can give me some insight becuase I have no clue!

1. He doesn't want to tell me everything he feels because it will hurt me too much.
2. He listed himself on two singles sites because he just wanted to "look" at what is out there.
3. I didn't cook enough vegetables in his meals.
4. I didn't get up early enough in the morning. (I was up at 7AM after staying up until midnight because he went to sleep early and his kids were doing whatever they wanted. Plus, he had indicated to me that he liked the "alone time" for a half an hour)
5. I didn't manage the house. He gave me full control and I didn't take care of the kids. (I called him all the time about his unruly kids, he would say "just tell them to do it" and they wouldn't and now I'm the bad guy they hate!")

So these are the things he is saying this week. He shut off my cell phone, shut off my gas card. I've worked for him the ten years of our marriage and now need to find another job. It went from a $40,000 a year business to a $670,000 a year business. I have a management background. He "fired" me for one day this week and couldn't handle it and asked me to come back. I WANT to help him! I don't want his business to fail!

All week he's been telling me about HIS future without me and how he's going to sell the house and move to the business property. (there is a duplex there. I am moving to another one of our rentals) The financial burden will be on him, yet he continues on full well knowing I've been wanting to put our marriage back together! I'll cook vegetables and get up a half an hour earlier! But I really don't think that is the point!

What is going on?