Here's my issue. She's asked me a couple of times via email to give her a figure, and I've asked her a couple of times to do the same. Neither one of us is willing to go first, yet. What could this mean? Does it mean that I am not at peace with the divorce? Have I really put behind all desire for reconciliation?
While I read bits and pieces, I have not read everything about your sitch, so if I miss anything, I plead ignorance.
My basic reaction is that if she is the one who wants to divorce, then she is the one who has to start the process. As for the more emotional aspects. My guess is those questions are somewhat rhetorical.
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Could she still be uncertain about the D?
Don;t ask her,. She will might give you answer! Again, this is her deal, she is the one who has to start it. The only caveat I have is that if it begins to negatively affect you (and I am thinking mainly financial here), then you have to decide what you want to do to protect yourself and your assets.
You do sound like you have your head screwed on pretty straight. And you have the right focus. As for her, you get that it is her gig and you have no control over that. Good luck.
