Walk Away Fiancee

[nate75]

Thanks Fish...I am really hurt by her actions. I tried so hard. You know that painting "Cafe Terrace at Night" by Van Gogh? That is her favorite painting. It is a real cafe located in Arles, France. Well, stupid me took her on a dream vacation last August and brought her to the actual location of her favorite painting. This is where I proposed to Amy. So everytime she looked at her favorite painting she would remember it as the place where I proposed as well...

I know that she met this guy at work in January...I remember her talking about him because he works with her uncle. I also know she began emailing him on January 29th when she she sent him a picture of herself. The email was returned because she sent it to the wrong email address. I know she started (at minimum) flirting with him sometime in January.

I just can't believe that she already has a joint checking account with this guy. She is going to be 35 and he is 26. I know she has about 100k in debt (student loans that are still building, auto loan, and credit cards)....maybe he is giving her money. The possibility of her getting back into drugs has crossed me mind....

As far as her contacting me...I see no reason for her to ever contact me. She knows that I know about this guy and is very subborn. Why would she ever want to contact me?

Thanks for everything.

Nate