Maybe he is drinking and I just don't know it cause I dont talk to him, maybe that's why he looks like crap...he felt comfortable enough to come in the other night and eat something and fall asleep on my couch..I of course didn't make a deal of it at all...acted like it was another day....that was so hard...but I did it...and I was so proud of myself...
And if it wasn't about the OW, wouldn't he be seeing different one and not sticking with the same one for 1 1/2 years now?
Treese
I would not be surprised if he is drinking, or worse. But, we don't know, and it doesn't excuse anything if he is.
As far as th OW goes, I think there is a lazy streak in the MLCer. So, I think he will be content to hang on to OW as long as he can. From reading a bunch of these threads it really seems like a lot of them stay with one OP, thought there are certainly "serial adulterers" too.
D15 is pretty smart! I think she is right about who stands to be the biggest loser in this!
