MLC came to my house...

[Treese]

HI Sandy;

OMG,,,I just read your sitch...we have so much in common...but you've probably heard that from a lot of people here. Our children are even almost the same ages..scary...and I've noticed a lot of the MLCer's have 3 children...or maybe I'm just drawn to those...I don't know...don't know much of anything anymore.. you did make me laugh..

I've done everything you have done...yelled at the steering wheel, cried with it...of course got no hugs from it...and I too know way too much about MLC...my friends tell me to just move on with my life as my H has been very cruel...he was a family man...never in a zillion years would I have thought I would be going through this either....I told him I thought we had a fairy tale marriage,,,,his reponse, "you did?"...wow...his OW is a girl from our past...we all did things together...hate her now...

My kids also know how much I love their dad and want him to come home but my D15 says its his fault...if he is happy without us that's his loss..it will bite him in the butt some day and he will have to pay the price..smart girl..my D21 wants nothing to do with her dad...I will not lie to my children...if they ask something I tell them the truth...I dont' give details but the truth...H got an ipod for christmas that he said he won at work...LIE LIE LIE....OW bought it for him...we even helped him download songs to it, even D15.. I told him he is to tell the children where he really got it and he said he would, did he? NO! of course not. that would make him look bad..Althought D21 is not stupid she sees right through her dad and said she is tired of his lies and games. Says her dad is depressed, in a mid life crisis or both...I'm like you...how come everyone else sees it except them...doesn't make sense...
Once when I was reading about MLC..H found the book and laughed at me and said, He's not having a MLC, that it is how he feels, and why don't I just understand that...He's not in love with me anymore....Whatever....

So, I wanted you to know I did the EXACT things you did and are doing..would love to talk to you...if you ever want to here is my number 614-562-1433.. I think we are on the same page...

Treese