You are dead on: "quite often, they're people who are divorced, divorcing, single, or have troubled relationships".
I was upset last night because i had to come running home from my GAL because my S12 would have been home alone at 11PM after he was out with some of his Lax friends/parents for pizza. I got home just before him. She texted me to say are you home and is S12 home yet. I texted back to ask her to call me. She said she could not because she was dancing with her girl friend (fat ugly India Single Girl). 15 minutes later she called so drunk she could hardly speak. I asked her if she was ok and she said/ sleered FIIINNNEEEE! At that piont I back slide and asked her where she was because I was worried and there was black ice everywhere and i saw two cars off the road on my way home. She said very evasively I am in WC on Passiac Ave. I said where? and she reluctantly named the place.
Do you think she doesn't want to tell me where she is because she doesn't want me to come there and meet other dysfunsional friends or do you think the possible OM was there or she was just trying to push my buttons. BTW: this is the second time she came home within minutes after I asked her where she was because i was so worried about her. I think she either was not where she said she was or didn't want me to show up. I know, I know, stop worring about her. Well sorry I can't!
A little bummed this morn and worried about my wife's drinking. My S12 even mentioned something about it. When she came home i acted like I was a sleep because when she gets drunk she gets depressed and wants to fight (that's why I moved out of the bed room) so she found that my s12 was sleeping in my bed after after we watched tv he fell asleep. She had a fit for some odd reason. Never has this happened before but she did get real made one day last week if you will recall when my son came to sit next to me in chair to watch TV. I wonder what that is all about.
I am hurting a little this morning but I am going to button my lip, smile and act as if life was never better. No questions asked.
She just got up and looks like Sh**. Very interested in where I was last night and all the detials, I was very evasive and did not ask one question about her. She is on the phone already.
