Also remember that they do things they would not normally do such as very heavy drinking, drugs, etc.
Try and think of OW as an escape as she means nothing. She may not be pumping anything into his head because his behavior is in line with many other MLCers.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19