Treese: Remember that they think of no one but themselves at that stage. You and your family are not a priority any longer in his mind.
When all is said and done and he comes out of this, he may tell you how painful it is to see what he has done. My H is telling me how painful it is for him because of what he has done.
You have lots of questions asking why but I think you are realizing that you and the kids are not important to him at this moment.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19