How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?

[Treese]

Sir;

I am learning all to fast not to believe a word that comes out of his mouth..23 years of unhappiness, and he told my daughter this...that would mean he wasn't happy when any of my children were born..why would you say that to your child...he's nuts...he looks like crap, at least to me...and he barely talks to the kids anymore...here is what my daughter said to me last night and it made me cry....

She is 15 and she said, "if dad is happy without us in his life then it is his loss, we, the 4 of us now, can build our new life together because some day it is going to come back and bite him in the butt, and it will be too late...we are going to be okay and he is the loser in all this". I told her it's in God's hands now, we just have to take it one day at a time. God love her...sometimes God talks through the kids and they deliver the message loud and clear..it will be his loss, he has already missed out on things..I wouldn't want to miss out on any memories that include my children..they are my life...

I cried for my kids last night because they are the ones who don't understand a lot of this...dad just dropped out of their lives in an instant..only comes around when he feels it necessary..pretty soon they won't care if he's there or not..we had issues getting pregnant and I had 3 miscarriages...so his unhappiness can be shoved right up his a**..He sure didn't seem to unhappy at the time we were trying...jerk...

I am ready Peter O'Connors book on Mid Life Crisis and it is very good...I see so much of my H in it..

Tomorrow I travel to volleyball with H and the kids...I'll be fine...I'll treat him as if I'm with a friend...bring a book and just smile...of course, he still has today to back out...I'll keep you posted..

Sir, hang in there...your wife sounds like she's gone off the deep end..who in the world would keep having kids with the person she is accusing of abuse...your kids sound great...and they love you...the courts will see right through your W....and you have such a great attitude...

(((hugs)))

Treese